DSA Coaching Expectations

Coaches are the single most important influence on a team’s culture. Their words, actions, and attitude set the tone for players, parents, and the overall game environment.

For this reason, the DSA Code of Conduct clearly states:

• Coaches shall not tolerate unsportsmanlike behavior from players or parents toward opponents, officials, or spectators.
• Coaches and parents are expected to teach good sportsmanship by example.
• Criticism of officials—public or private—is not permitted.
• Coaches must maintain a controlled and respectful demeanor toward referees Co coaches and parents.
• Verbal or physical abuse of referees will not be tolerated.

Purpose of DSA Programs

DSA exists to provide a positive experience for youth participants. Our goals include:

• Having fun
• Building teamwork
• Developing skills
• Encouraging social growth
• Promoting values and sportsmanship

Coaches play the key role in delivering this experience through leadership and example.

Game Environment & Sportsmanship

All teams compete under the same conditions:

• Same referees
• Same opponents
• Same league structure

At a recent Round Robin Championship game, both teams demonstrated what DSA stands for. Players and coaches gathered at midfield before the game, cheering for one another and celebrating the opportunity to compete. The result was an exciting, positive experience for everyone involved.

That example reflects the standard DSA expects.

Referee Respect – Zero Tolerance Policy

Yelling at or confronting referees is not permitted—no exceptions.

• Referees are often middle and high school students
• Many are licensed and experienced
• All are learning and developing, just like the players

Coaches must model respect regardless of disagreements with calls. Most decisions in soccer are discretionary, meaning they are made based on the referee’s judgment—not the coach’s.

Understanding the Game

Youth athletes develop at different rates:

• Physically
• Emotionally
• Skill-wise

What may appear to be intentional fouls is often part of normal development. Soccer is also a contact sport, and physical play increases with age and experience.

Coaches who promote aggressive play styles should also recognize that:

• Opponents will naturally match that intensity
• Games become harder to officiate
• Player safety and sportsmanship must remain the priority

Coach Influence

Players and parents will reflect the behavior of the coach.

• A respectful coach creates respectful teams and sidelines
• A negative coach often leads to negative environments

Most participants—players, parents, referees, and administrators—prefer a positive and supportive atmosphere.

Accountability

All participants must follow:

• League rules and regulations
• The DSA Code of Conduct

The DSA Board of Directors is responsible for upholding these standards. Coaches are expected to follow them not just because they are required, but because they represent the right way to lead young athletes.

Bottom Line

This is not about referees—it is about leadership.

Coaches are responsible for creating a culture that:

• Respects the game
• Supports development
• Encourages sportsmanship
• Provides a positive experience for every participant